I longed for security, safety & consistency – without realizing I hadn’t yet learned how to give those things to myself.
Even if someone had offered them, I wouldn’t have known how to receive or sustain it.
I didn’t embody those qualities within me first.
I craved security, yet chased the men who left me feeling anxious and frantic.
I wanted safety, but kept engaging in behaviors that led me into unhealthy dynamics.
I desire consistency, yet couldn’t even uphold the promises I made to myself.
👉 Whatever you’re seeking in a partner, you must first create within.
Looking for more excitement and fun? Start exploring new hobbies solo, first.
Desiring intimacy and passion? Dive deeper into knowing yourself.
Searching for love and commitment? Ask: Do I love and commit to myself, even in my singleness?
Everything you want in another, can be cultivated within yourself.
And when it is, that’s when you show up to a relationship WHOLE, allowing the other person to compliment and add to your life… not complete it.
A relationship where you rely on the other person to fulfill you is a relationship that will always end in lack.
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