For years, I believed love was something I had to earn.
I chased validation and commitment from emotionally unavailable men, confused intensity with intimacy, and quieted my needs just to keep the connection alive.
But the truth hit me hard (and eventually set me free):
The kind of love I truly wanted couldn’t be chased – it had to be chosen.
And that started with choosing myself first.
Through deep inner work, I stopped the chase and started a new path:
One built on self-worth, secure connection, and real compatibility… NOT hot and cold, confusing CHAOS.
I healed years of anxious attachment, heartbreak, and unhealthy dating patterns that left me feeling stuck and defeated.
If any of this feels familiar, know this –
You’re not alone.
And you don’t have to keep repeating the same cycle.
This is the exact work I do with my clients.
So they can stop settling, start receiving, and finally experience the love they’ve always deserved.
Ready to break the pattern?
DM me the word “CHOOSE” (@coachkatedurocher) and I’ll share how we can work together. 💬
Stop chasing, start choosing.
With love,
Kate
